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3 Deep Conversation Starters to Build Real Connection
TREY RICH 💲@treyrich._

This video provides three specific questions designed to deepen connections and reveal a partner's emotional intelligence. Trey Rich explains how to use these prompts to identify red flags and determine if someone is looking for a serious commitment.

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3 Deep Conversation Starters to Build Real Connection

This video provides three specific questions designed to deepen connections and reveal a partner's emotional intelligence. Trey Rich explains how to use these prompts to identify red flags and determine if someone is looking for a serious commitment.

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The hook — as said out loud
Three deep conversation starters. They might start catching feelings with these. So I need you to pay attention.
The script — as said out loud
Three deep conversation starters. They might start catching feelings with these. So I need you to pay attention. Now, number one, you're going to ask, what's something meaningful that you learned about yourself from your past relationship? We not asking this to get information about the exes. We asking this just to simply get to know them deeper. And this question going to let you know if they really done the inner work and really analyze their past relationships to understand what they have learned, not just blame everything on the ex. Now, number two, you're going to ask, how do you usually handle conflict? Because I tell you right now, I'm not trying to argue back and forth with you, and I know y' all probably not neither. So if they answer this question, would they shut down or they get avoidant or an, I don't know, start waving your red flag and get disturbing? And last but not least, you gonna ask, what excites you most about building a relationship with someone? This one right here gonna give you insight on what they're really looking for. If they're trying to build something with intention or they just want something fun for the moment. Now, I need you to save this video so you don't forget none of these. And hit that follow button for more of these tips. Mmm. Trey Rich.
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  1. 01
    The Hook and Promise

    State exactly how many items you are sharing and the extreme positive result they produce. Command attention.

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    Item One: The 'Why' Behind the 'What'

    State the first item. Clarify what it's NOT about to avoid misconceptions, then explain the real psychological purpose.

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    Item Two: The Personal Boundary

    State the second item. Connect it to a personal standard or relatable frustration to build rapport.

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    Item Three: The Filter

    State the final item. Explain how this specific tip filters for high-quality vs. low-quality targets.

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    The Recall & Growth CTA

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