44 Life Lessons That Will Change Your Mindset at Any Age | Aspire with Emma Grede

Tomorrow I turn 44 years old. You want to know what I've actually learned, how I've learned it, how I apply it to my life. And I wanted to pull together 44 truths, learnings, just the stuff that I know to be true. So this has to be the first thing. Advice only changes your [music] behavior. 17. Number 21. 32. You've heard about the Emma disease. Oh yeah, I know you have. If the only thing your money can do is be seen, you don't have wealth. You have a costume. Failure is expensive. So, make sure you purchase the lesson. Don't make permanent decisions in a temporary emotional state. Don't take advice from people who don't have to live with the consequences. This next one is literally the single best advice that I ever got. You can never ever ever Okay, guys. I need to just level with you and tell you a little something. Over [music] 77% of people who watch this show aren't subscribed. And I need you to subscribe to YouTube. It's very quick. It's very easy. It's very worth it. Do me a favor and subscribe today. Okay. So, I did this for you, but I also did it for myself. I turn 44 tomorrow. And so I wanted to pull together 44 truths, learnings, beliefs, pieces of advice, the things that I have learned to trust, and just the stuff I know to be true from all of my life's experiences. This actually started off as a little journal challenge to myself. And I asked myself like, what have I learned over the years? And in that very Oprah way, what do I know to be true at 44? Once I started writing, I basically just thought, I really need to share this because that is what life is all about. And honestly, the more I learn about this community, the more I understand exactly what you want. You want to know what I've actually learned and how I learned it. And you want to know how I apply it to my life. And so hopefully I can take some of this 44 years of decision-m, the good, the bad, and the ugly. And you will be able to apply some of the learnings to your life. Because here is something that I know for sure. Advice only changes your life when it changes your behavior. Now, we're going to move through this chapter by chapter, and by the end, you're going to have my personal operating system for basically everything in life. Because I'm going to talk to you about it all, I decided that we would talk about mindset and relationships, about meaning and time. As I was writing this list, it became about relationships and motherhood and action and ambition, and honestly, how I think about failure and work and money because come on now, you know, I'm going to talk about money. So, we're going to start at the start, which means, you guessed it, you have to start with yourself.